Asalam Aleykum. At age 10, came to US, in-touch with my roots, open minded religious & family oriented. I like to fulfill rights of my God, serve my parents, uphold good manners in society. I am soft spoken yet confident, sensitive, ambitious, optimistic, opinionated,a bit romantic (altho never had a girlfriend) I love exploring podcasts (joe rogan,sam harris, tigerbelly BBC 4) i like understand the world & how it operates & find my spot in it, like a jigsaw puzzle, me being a piece, looking to contribute positively, if Lord wills.
Life is a beautiful gift from God that needs to be honored by living meaningfully. Life is a beautiful expression towards building / maintaining healthy relationships. We must discover ourselves (self realization) once we know ourselves & look to understand others.
I like to think logically,rationally. I enjoy deep meaningful conversations (life/wisdom/truth/virtue/motivations).
I love human interaction, its my
... more oxygen, to express our views/ideas/feelings IS LIFE without our expressions we are dead.
I give more value to human relationships over showcasing materials & objects.I am a good listener who values meaningful conversations. I like to understand other views uphold "agree to disagree" policy in civil manner without raising our voices & remain polite. I believe in giving people space to develop n live their dreams (halal dreams plz) very sensitive to people's feelings, i am a HSP. I have hard time saying NO to people's, believe in serving people, so to say NO is hard for me at times.
i live in Jamaica Queens NYC with a bit traditional parents who are kinda' like George Costanza' parents.Ibaldy guy from Seinfeld sitcom) which is frustrating at times. Since i am their only child). I chose to live them because i'm their only JOY but its kinda suffocating as they failed to find a life partner for me. To be blunt, they r dysfunctional. They haven't made much effort. So, at this point, i want to find a someone n move out..n live my life, enough serving parents, without getting any return.. It's unfortunate but true, i am just being straight forward honest n truthful as honesty is best policy.
So, I've decided to find someone myself. It's not easy because when you are a Muslim, you can't really date. It's just you meet someone you have a couple of interactions and go for it. Hit/Miss thing but in the interaction phase, i feel if 2 people are genuine and express themselves fully without holding anything back, we may have a good chance of finding the EXACT person we want. Marriage is a long term project, common understanding mindset matters a lot.
I am looking for a life partner who i can be best friends with. Would be nice if she carries a selfless attitude. A successful marriage is about 2 people looking to make each-others day brighter.
Khandanwise i am sindhi-Name Visible on Login from Karachi but i dont know sindhi culture much nor assoc. w/ it much. My Dad is huge on 'sindhi' stuff heh, he loves the sindhi sakawutt o something.hehe..I have a small family, just me dad & mom. (Mom speaks pashto) Dad is a Mr.Softy very traditional but innocent. I have no siblings :( lazy parents! Just kidding )..My Dad works at a property mgmt office as accounts Manager. Mom teaches Quran to kids in the neighborhood . I have my kinsfolk are in Karachi, Pakistan.